"This Retreat is Ideal For:

• Committed Couples: Whether married or in a domestic partnership, this retreat is crafted for those who are deeply committed to each other and ready to invest further in their union.

• Seekers of Deeper Connection: Ideal for couples who aspire to deepen their emotional, spiritual, and physical bond, going beyond the surface of conventional relationship dynamics.

• Willingness to Grow Together: Perfect for partners who are open to exploring and addressing challenges in their relationship, and who see value in personal and mutual growth.

• Couples Ready for Transformation: This retreat is a fit for those who are on a journey of transformation, eager to explore new dimensions of their relationship and unlock higher levels of intimacy and understanding.

• Adventurous Spirits: Suitable for couples who are open to novel experiences, including therapeutic activities, spiritual practices, and integrative workshops that may challenge their perspectives and comfort zones.

• Life-Long Learners: Couples who view their relationship as a journey of continuous learning and discovery will find this retreat aligns with their values and aspirations.

• Healing and Rejuvenation Seekers: Those looking to heal past traumas, reignite passion, and revitalize their relationship will find this retreat offers the tools and environment for profound healing and rejuvenation.

⚠️Please Note: This retreat is not recommended for couples in the midst of severe relationship crises or those looking for a quick fix. It's an immersive experience requiring active participation and an open heart and mind.

To maintain an intimate setting the retreat will be limited to a maximum of 12 couples plus facilitators.

A full itinerary will be sent following the reservation. For more details prior to booking your retreat, schedule an alignment call with Jeff.

What's Included:

• Group bus travel from Cancun and Tulum airports

• Luxurious lodging in a private villa.

• All meals, are crafted to promote health and wellness.

• Full access to retreat workshops and sessions.

• Special ceremonies, including flower and cacao ceremonies.

• Personalized sessions focusing on your relationship goals.

• Four Elemental Ceremonies: Led by Dhyana Sophia, these rituals use the elements to purify, transform, and embody your intentions to grow together.

• Extracurricular Activities:

• Moonlit beach ceremony,

• sweat lodge,

• separated men’s and women’s workshops and initiations,

• yin yoga class,

• sacred cacao ceremony,

• sound healing,

• local band dance party

No. This work is transformational enough without any substances. We usually do hold a cacao ceremony, which is literally drinking melted raw chocolate with a few adaptogenic herbs. It has a stimulant effect similar to caffeine and helps to open the heart.

I combine modern relationship psychology with spirituality and a breadth of facilitation and transformational experience to fix issues and guide you both toward deeper embodiment of sacred relationships. I hosted a men’s circle for 3 years and deeply learned the psyche of modern men. I also practiced as an attorney for 13 years and honed mediation skills as well as a grounded approach to communicating and understanding esoteric spiritual principles.

NO!!!!! Absolutely not. For your safety and boundaries as well as mine, I keep and demand a respectful container between facilitators and couples. In a private retreat, I never enter your bedroom, and we only interact in our common area where we create a workshop Temple space. I may guide and teach physical intimacy techniques and tantra WITH CLOTHES ON that you and your partner practice together. And, there is always an alternative technique, practice, or tool to substitute for anything you do not feel comfortable with doing. Feel welcome to take those tools into the bedroom AFTER our Retreat! Also note, that primarily we are working with energy, alignment, healing, space holding, forgiveness, communication, connection, learning, healthy conflict, new commitments and tools, and physical intimacy is the little cherry on top of the new depths and trust that is built.

A monogamous experience. No disrespect to the poly-loving couples, but our retreats are for practicing monogamy better. Our principles also work for the mostly monogamous. Whatever one of our couples does outside of our container is up to them, and no judgment on their consensual agreements. However, to be clear, I do not get involved sexually with my clients, and keep a tight sexual relationship with my partner. Also, our group couples retreats are not invitations for couples to experiment outside their relationship with the other couples.

Generally masculine and feminine principles apply in straight or non-traditional relationships. While I’ve had gay and lesbian couples attend my workshops with great results, I have not facilitated a deep private container. If you feel called to my energy and approach, let’s have a conversation and see if it is aligned for us both.

For couples attending the Sacred Union Awakening Retreat and planning to enjoy their stay in Mexico, here's a recommended list of items to bring:

For the Retreat:

1. Comfortable Clothing: Bring clothes suitable for various activities such as yoga, meditation, and workshops. Comfort is key.

2. Notebook and Pen: Essential for jotting down insights, reflections, and important points during sessions.

3. Reusable Water Bottle: Stay hydrated throughout the day, especially important in a tropical climate.

4. Personal Wellness Items: Include any personal yoga mats, meditation cushions, or other aids you prefer to use.

5. Journal: For personal reflections and exercises.

6. Comfortable Shoes: For light walking or nature excursions.

7. Special Items for Ceremonies: If there are specific ceremonies, you might be asked to bring items of personal significance.

For Enjoying Mexico:

1. Swimwear: Akalki's beautiful beaches call for swimwear.

2. Sun Protection: Sunscreen, hats, and sunglasses to protect from the tropical sun.

3. Insect Repellent: Especially important if you plan to explore nature and rainforest areas.

4. Casual Evening Wear: For dinners or casual evenings out.

5. Beach Towel/Sarong: Useful for beach trips or lounging by the pool.

6. Rain Gear: Lightweight rain jackets or umbrellas for unexpected showers, especially if traveling in the rainy season.

7. Camera or Smartphone: To capture memories of your trip.

8. Travel Adapters: If your electronic devices use different plugs.

9. Basic Medical Kit: Include any personal medications, along with basic first aid items.

10. Eco-friendly Toiletries: Consider the environment when selecting toiletries.

11. Daypack: For day trips or excursions.

12. Guidebook or Map: Handy for exploring local attractions.

13. Travel Documents: Passports, travel insurance, and any other necessary documentation.

14. Cash and Credit Cards: While cards are widely accepted, having some local currency (Colones) is useful for smaller purchases.

15. Snacks: For day trips or if you have specific dietary needs.

Remember, the key is to pack light but be prepared for the variety of activities and the tropical climate of Costa Rica. Enjoy your retreat and the beauty of Bacalar. Mexcio!

Generally, our retreats are mostly vegetarian or also include fish. The goal is to keep food light because we move a lot of energy. If you have special dietary needs, please let me know as soon as possible, especially if it is a group retreat, and we will do our best to accommodate you.

To fully embrace the transformative journey of the Sacred Union Awakening, we encourage you to join us with an open heart and mind, ready to actively engage in each enriching activity we have thoughtfully prepared for you.

Understanding that you might have questions or wish to delve deeper into what this unique experience entails, we are delighted to offer an optional personalized SACRED UNION ALIGNMENT call. This exclusive opportunity allows you to connect one-on-one with Jeff. During this call, he will provide insights into what you can expect, address any queries, and assist in aligning your intentions with the transformative potential of the retreat.

Booking this alignment call is a step towards ensuring that the Sacred Union Awakening Retreat is attuned to your journey and aspirations. Let us guide you in preparing for an experience that promises not just a retreat, but a profound journey towards deeper connection and self-discovery.

We value the confidentiality of our important high-profile and privacy-conscious guests. We take your privacy seriously and are committed to offering a sacred space in whichh our guests can relax and show up fully, committed, vulnerable and authentically.

We have policies in place to ensure your privacy and discretion.

Our services are generally booked with a deposit and then paid in full a few weeks before the retreat. The payment of the deposit is a commitment you are making to yourself and the relationship. Further, it allows me to set my Calendar and prepare energetically to create a magical experience for you. Payment plans might be available on request and situational basis

You must pay the deposit to reserve your spot. This can be done at any time. (You don't have to wait for our call, especially if you want to lock in access to a premium room on the lagoon.) Typically we get on an alignment call and make sure there is a mutual understanding and fit to do the work. Next, I’ll send a written Agreement. You sign and pay a deposit, or in full. Following receipt of payment, you’ll receive further instructions to prepare for the experience.

No. However, I prefer to speak to both partners together. I understand that life puts scheduling demands on you which makes that difficult. So, if one of you wants to meet with me, feel my energy, and learn my approach, I welcome the consultation! Before we commit to doing work, however, I’ll need to also set up a call with your partner.